How To Fix Marriage In Two Weeks!
Yes, it Really is Possible! In order to fix a marriage, a couple must be able to find a new starting place. Wiping away the damage caused by numerous slights can take a lot of time and patience. There is no magical recipe to fix marriage, but there are many tasty dishes that can result from a couple working hard to get things back on track.
Each marriage has key elements of turmoil. For most people, these are either over or under discussed. Either way, they underlie every decision, discussion, or situation. When you consider how long it took for your relationship to get in the shape of needing repair you might think it is unlikely that you can repair it in just two weeks time. But you can!
There are three things that you can do right now, all on your own that will make a quick difference in your marriage.
The first is to use something called negative suggestion. Basically, you agree with everything your spouse does or says. Essentially, by doing this you end the war…take away the desire to fight. You just agree. You don’t even have to believe it yourself but the goal is to allow them to have their behaviors, feelings, and beliefs unchallenged. When you remove yourself from the battle, your spouse will begin to think differently because the challenge is removed.
The second thing that you can do to fix marriage is to quit your nagging. Both husbands and wives nag, complain, whine, roll their eyes, and speak under their breath as well as a host of other activities that quite simply keep the war going. Although you don’t realize it, you and your spouse are in a win-lose competition. Sadly, unless one of you backs out, both of you will be the losers.
When you quit being negative and constantly bringing up subjects that cause pressure or distress, you will relax. This will cause a major shift in your inner and outer sense of being. This isn’t to say that you don’t care, but it does correspond to negative suggestion which screams, “I am not going to fight anymore!”
The third way to fix marriage in two weeks is to begin “acting” happy! “Acting” is the operative word. Sure, you don’t feel happy in this moment. Sure, you have many things to be upset about. However, when you start to act happy and re-engage in things in YOUR life that bring you pleasure and happiness, you change your energy. When your energy is changed in this way, you will also begin to truly feel happier and more energetic.
This is more difficult than it may seem. But “acting” happy will remind you of what it feels like to be happy. It will also show your partner that not only are you not going to engage in the fight but that you are also not going to let them bring you down. It asserts the fact that you can and will be happy with or without your spouse and also brings an air of contentment to your life.
When you combine these three activities, you can fix marriage. In just two weeks! If you make the decision that you aren’t going to participate in something that is hurtful and that you are not interested in the competition, you can make room for the love to reappear. Your partner will eventually follow suit. They will be surprised that you have put down your weapons and be provoked into thinking about the relationship.
The best part is that by doing this, you are also taking care of yourself and returning your focus to an area of your life where you can make a difference in your marriage yourself! To fix marriage in this way can eventually help you to have a happier life that brings you more satisfaction than ever before.